St. Francis'  Peace Prayer 
BEFORE CRUCIFIX
IN SAN DAMIANO

Lord,  make me an instrument of your peace.
     Where there is hatred..... let me sow love;
     Where there is injury..... pardon;

     Where there is doubt..... faith;
     Where there is despair..... hope;
     Where there is darkness..... light;
     Where there is sadness..... joy.
O  Divine Master,  grant that I may not so much seek
     To be consoled..... as to console;
     To be understood..... as to understand;
     To be loved..... as to love.
For
     It is in giving..... that we receive,
     It is in pardoning..... that we are pardoned,
     It is in dying
..... that we are born to eternal life.

               

When a deep injury is done to us, we never recover until we forgive.  The bird with broken wings still sings, the tree with broken limbs still grows, and the person with a broken heart still loves, for even though we are all broken in different ways, we must continue on.  It's easy to judge the mistakes of others, but it's difficult to recognize our own mistakes.  Mistakes are always forgivable if one has the courage to admit them.  Forgiveness is a catalyst, creating the atmosphere necessary for a fresh start and a new beginning.  The weak can never forgive.  Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.  The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; and the wise forgive but do not forget.  To forgive is the highest and most beautiful form of love.

God commands us to forgive one another.

The  prayer  of  protection.
The  prayer  of  transformation.
The  prayer  of  restoration.

Dear Lord, we ask you to give us all-around peace in our mind, body, soul, and spirit.  Please give me strength when I am weak, love when I feel forsaken, courage when I am afraid, wisdom when I feel foolish, comfort when I am alone, hope when I feel rejected, and peace when I am in turmoil.  Thank You for Your promise to put our sins behind Your back, to bury them in the depths of the sea, and to remove them from us as far as the east is from the west.  I pray You would cover these hurts in Your healing grace and, through Your strength, empower me to forgive others as wholly and completely as You first forgave me.  In Jesus' name, Amen.

Grogiveness is a choice, but it is not an option.